When in a relationship guys pick up a lot about girls. There’s always some unwanted behavior that your boyfriend wishes you didn’t do, it’s just normal. Here is a list of things men hate that women do and want you to stop.
14. Stop blaming guys
For something they haven’t done. Just because you had a dream about your boyfriend cheating on you doesn’t mean he actually is. So don’t wake up and start yelling at him for it. They don’t like being yelled at or being treated differently for something that isn’t true. So stop it girl!
13. Don’t ask
If you don’t want to know something about your boyfriend, don’t ask it. Men hate being set up with questions that tend to lead into arguments. It’s not fun for the both you. Who wants to fight when you can love each other? Cheesy, right? But it’s true!
12. Be smart
Men don’t like when girls make themselves seem dumb. If you’re intelligent show it, it’s an attraction that many men have towards women. It draws good attention to you and it should be something you want to credit yourself for. Don’t downgrade yourself! Upgrade yourself!
11. Being like other girls
Girls should be proud of their fellow sisters and want to support one another and not put each other down. Guys don’t like this, don’t belittle his ex just because you want to be a little better than her.
10. Stop being catty
Men don’t like when you’re being mean in general, but its big turn off when you’re mean to another person. Its normal not to like everyone you meet, but if you don’t like a girl due to the fact of jealousy it’s not right and you shouldn’t be mean to them for that reason. At the end of the day bad mouthing someone is a big turn off and if we got nothing to say we shouldn’t it say it at all.
9. Checking out other girls?
I know it’s not the best feeling when your man checks out another girl but it’s okay. Don’t drop to conclusion that he likes her more then you, he just happens to think she’s cute or is dressed nicely. Girls do the same thing, when girls find another guy attractive they check them out as well. This is mutual between both pairs but we just got to take the compliments and move on. It’s much more attractive when girlfriends can take the compliment about other girl and not start an argument with their boyfriends over it.
8. Do I look fat?
Guys hate this!!! Stop asking them if you think they look fat. If guys say “no” you’re going to think they’re lying about it and question them, but if they say “yes” you’re going to feel even uglier and get really upset that your boyfriend thinks you’re fat. There’s never a right answer to this question.
7. Be a good listener
Guys don’t like when you patronize them when they decide to open up to you. It’s hard for some people to do this so when someone opens up to you just listen and be there for them.
6. Stop being petty
If you and your boyfriend had an argument about something and came to an agreement, keep it as is. Don’t go back being petty and start arguing again. This is really annoying, once you made your peace move on from it. No one likes brining up old fights!
5. Quiet moments
Don’t ask your boyfriend what he’s thinking during his quiet moments. Everyone needs their own personal time to themselves.
4. Trust issues
If your man is out and you always think he’s up to no good, then that’s bad. If you are in a healthy relationship and have no signs of disrespect or him mistreating you then you shouldn’t feel this way.
Communication is key to any relationship. Your man does not like when you’re constantly being passive aggressive to prove a point. Just take a breath and talk it out.
When in a relationship girls think they can change how their boyfriends dress. But guys don’t really like this. They can take this as criticism because you don’t originally like what they’re wearing.
1. Being a parent?
Guys hate when their girlfriends become their parent. Don’t baby and yell at your boyfriend for not doing something. He’s a grown man and can handle his own business.
Keep your hands to yourself. Men don’t like being hit in any kind of way, whether it be jokingly or seriously. Guys in a sense will feel intimated because you’re using violence as a form of communication.